If you’re not going to stand with your brothers and sisters then we’ll look forward to watching you fall.Love him or hate him, the one thing you can't say about Lil Nas X - or his music - is that he's boring. Last I checked you’ve got about three kinds of synthetic material in your wigs and the smell of last nights community dump on yalls d***. Or that trans black people are leading the chart in murder victim rates. Like black gay men and women aren’t the the biggest victims of suicide and homelessness because of a homophobic black society hiding behind the banner of religion. When that happens know that you’re hatred and ignorance is the cause & f*** this website for even daring to pose this question. It’s sad and will lead him to self destruction. Look at the comments, you’ll see the bigotry that’s making him convinced he has to do this. This young man can pretend he’s delivert, fine, but don’t pretend like this is anything but symptomatic of the homophobic society he’s been surrounded by and that’s now using him as a mascot to beat up a marginal sector of the black community who they should stand by the same way they stand for them. If he experiences same s** attraction in the capacity of gayness or bisexuality I don’t know, so I can’t say anything about what’s helping him pull this facade. One is a biological fact, the other is a societal construct. No, because sexuality is not comparable to gender. If society accepts and embraces transitions made by members of the transgender community, isn’t it hypocritical to mock and condemn Dollaz for making transition of his own? Sexuality however is a choice, because its a lifestyle. And sexual attraction is a function of instinctive behavior. Its that other 90% that controls all your spontaneous gestures and mannerisms which you dont have to think of in order to do, your instinctive behavior is controlled by that faculty of the brain. And thats were most of the gayness thrives.
So its not a question of just telling yourself ‘im now strait’ coz you only have power over 10% of your brain capacity, but the other 90% is beyond reach. So gay conversion therapy to be effective means rewiring your brain including the 90% you are not aware of. Problem is the human brain is way more sophisticated, and we are only aware of probably a tenth of it. It might not be impossible but its not as easy as just waking up one morning and saying im strait! You probably have to undergo serious psychometric therapies which might be really traumatising both physically and psychologically. He would do the lgbt community a favor if he revealed how he did it. If he believes and walk in it, that’s his perception thus becoming his reality. That man can say he’s straight, gay or whtever he wants.
Open your mind and like previously stated state looking for convenient equality. Why don’t our society allow men to have that fluidity? Lastly, women experiment and live through long sexuality phases and switch freely, often. I think both options are real! Which is why it’s best to let those people live their best truth. So until that happens we can’t say whether someone is born this way or if they’re socially influenced. Secobdlt, as of now there is NO HARD SCIENCE that proves what determines a person’s sexuality. because tho don’t have the biological make to know and confirm! This is why many theorist believe being transgender is a decidcision and or mental disorder. Transgender people only know what they think it feel like. Only natural male knows what it feels like to be a male. Only a natural female knows what it physically feels like to be a femal. American/ westernized construction of female behavior. I’m hoping you all know the difference between gender and s**, right?Īs a matter of fact, those two have subscribed to the American concept of what a female should look and act like. Caitlyn and Laverne both have *hunches* about what it feels like to be women not a female. That’s the major conflict with transgender… our society has decided to not challenge the concept enough.
The truth of it all is… how in the hell can a person born a male say his body doesn’t match how he feels? A biological male will never, no matter what surgery he gets, know what it physically feels like to be a female. Pause! Don’t just debate this on the surface.